Hi Noobcamper,
We definitely have both your requirements nailed at 3rd Fleet. We're a large international fleet so we have that "always on" feeling and we do lots of "stuff" together .... Which is fun! (STFs, RP, PVP etc)

Check us out at http://www.3rdfleet.com or check our recruitment vid at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42p-B1wWDuE&hd=1 (we have a couple of folk who love this stuff)