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I've been told, that this is a great possibility if I continue to play.

But sadly, this isn't the tip of a really nasty iceberg.

-Tim
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# 2
02-10-2010, 01:21 AM
Considering it yes...
Realising that a divorce over a game is rather petty... Also yes.

So no.
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# 3
02-10-2010, 01:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Chat
Considering it yes...
Realising that a divorce over a game is rather petty... Also yes.

So no.
Thankfully this is the most SANE reason my wife would have. I'm just terribly tired of raising our two children all day, running my business for someone who can't see the big picture, or ever be happy with what she has.

There is a constant tone of negativity in the home when she is around. That I cannot change, that's personal.

-Tim
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# 4
02-10-2010, 01:32 AM
Well some women look at you using the game and blowing time in it as cheating on them as now they have competition with a machine. Honestly man from what you describe fire the dead weight as it just sounds like she's hanging on so you pay her way.

REGARDLESS of the situation there shouldn't be a negative tone coming from someone you want to spend your life with. That only happens when a person changes their mind and feels trapped or stuck.

Good luck on whatever you decide. With 8.9 women to every one man on the planet. If she wants to leave or some petty video game, I'd get up walk over to the door and open it then sit back down.

That's just me though. You are thee only one who can decide what's best for you. Seems like though you're looking for approval and not guidance.
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# 5
02-10-2010, 01:34 AM
Chat would like to quote a brilliant person... Herself.


Get rid of her. You wont gain anything by staying with someone you do not want to be with.

THE END!

ps. with get rid Chat means divorce... Sadly murder is looked down upon by society.


And it is oddly fitting that this song is playing atm in her headset.
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# 6
02-10-2010, 01:38 AM
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Chat would like to quote a brilliant person... Herself.


Get rid of her. You wont gain anything by staying with someone you do not want to be with.

THE END!

ps. with get rid Chat means divorce... Sadly murder is looked down upon by society.


And it is oddly fitting that this song is playing atm in her headset.
Chat speaks the truth. You ain't happy, time to move on.

However, this is sadly more difficult than telling someone to do such. See my other threads raving about how much I love redheads. Combined with the fact that I've had one taunt my dreams since before I was 13, add in that my wife is not a redhead, nor slightly interested in anything I am...though she is my best friend and I do care for her, we both know we aren't meant to be.

Divorce is just too dang expensive, and DIY divorce is full of legalese my brain can't comprehend.
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# 7
02-10-2010, 01:41 AM
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Well some women look at you using the game and blowing time in it as cheating on them as now they have competition with a machine. Honestly man from what you describe fire the dead weight as it just sounds like she's hanging on so you pay her way.

REGARDLESS of the situation there shouldn't be a negative tone coming from someone you want to spend your life with. That only happens when a person changes their mind and feels trapped or stuck.

Good luck on whatever you decide. With 8.9 women to every one man on the planet. If she wants to leave or some petty video game, I'd get up walk over to the door and open it then sit back down.

That's just me though. You are thee only one who can decide what's best for you. Seems like though you're looking for approval and not guidance.

Wife called me gay for hanging out on teamspeak with my fleet, talking about the game.

lol... far from it thankfully. =oP


Yeah, she's just grasping at straws and trying to cause a ruckus.

I would leave, but my kids would end up with psycho lady.

-Tim
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# 8
03-05-2010, 10:25 PM
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Wife called me gay for hanging out on teamspeak with my fleet, talking about the game.

lol... far from it thankfully. =oP


Yeah, she's just grasping at straws and trying to cause a ruckus.

I would leave, but my kids would end up with psycho lady.

-Tim
Tim, get a good lawyer. You deserve to be happy. Don't stay in a marriage where you have lost all respect for your partner.

You could try asking her to get professional help... good luck.

Me, I am happily married for nearly 25 years - we always talk sweet to each other and support each other. It's not a good marriage if you are constantly at odds. Home should be a haven, not a battleground. Get out, and get the kids if you can.
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# 9
02-10-2010, 02:00 AM
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Originally Posted by KaosGladiator View Post
Well some women look at you using the game and blowing time in it as cheating on them as now they have competition with a machine. Honestly man from what you describe fire the dead weight as it just sounds like she's hanging on so you pay her way.

REGARDLESS of the situation there shouldn't be a negative tone coming from someone you want to spend your life with. That only happens when a person changes their mind and feels trapped or stuck.

Good luck on whatever you decide. With 8.9 women to every one man on the planet. If she wants to leave or some petty video game, I'd get up walk over to the door and open it then sit back down.

That's just me though. You are thee only one who can decide what's best for you. Seems like though you're looking for approval and not guidance.
What he said. If you give in to the nagging, it'll be a sign to her that nagging is the way to get you to do things, and she'll be nagging you for the rest of your life. Put a stop to this asap! Whether you make her ask nicely or get a divorce is entirely up to you. In favor of your kids, I'd try getting her to ask nicely first.
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# 10
02-10-2010, 02:09 AM
Cryptic must be loving this. The 2 signs of a good MMO

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