seriously, I only got 5 today.. it was a good day.. *sigh* I average 10-15. It's gotten so bad I don't even like logging on to my VA because they see me without a fleet an think it's their job to get me into theirs so i can help them quest or whatever it is they do or don't wanna do for themselves.
Oh an if there is an option to do this, I haven't found it so let me know.
I would say get the required 3 or 5 players( not sure really) to start your own fleet. Then kick the other members from the fleet. You will be a one man fleet. I don't believe anyone is allowed to send you an invite if your already in a fleet.