When you actually go about figuring out the logistics needed to get a starbase to tier three by yourself and then actually get the job done instead of throwing up your hands and going out and getting a life.
When your female andorian first officer understands you better than your RL girlfriend.(So you think)
When you think"Engage!" getting on to the highway.
When your up at 3 a.m. buzzed out on energy drinks, and posting on the forum, to get off the caffene -STF buzz.