Can I have your stuff. No seriously. I know what you mean but its not as bad has some people make out. I enjoy it and I look forward to STO getting better. They seem to jump on problems pretty quick IMHO. Server seems more stable now and bugs are getting sorted.
I was looking for a Casual MMO and found it. £10pm/33p a day or so is two or three pints or a pizza, so its no big deal. Even if I play a hour a night its worth it to me.