I have had it done to me 10 times more by feds than I have done it myself. I'm telling you what I am observing and experiencing. That you emotionally find hard to understand, is not my problem. Realizing "white mage' prima donnas might have transitioned to STO from thier other MMO's, I will try and be tolerant and let you get up to speed.
No, no, I get it. I understand where you're coming from. I just don't approve of it. I'm quite familiar with the "But they did it first!" philosophy - I just think that if you want anything to improve, the place to start is with yourself (that doesn't just apply to PvP, by the way)