As others have said, this controversy is addressed in the novel, and in a way that was particularly well-written. You are making assumptions about who did what to whom, and about the nature of Data's resurrection. I made those same assumptions myself, and was delighted to see that I was wrong.
Please read the novel, or at least find out the events that transpired, and the open possibilities that remain as a result of them, before passing judgement. I was glad I did.