I understand wanting a more competent group of players to team with. I have found, however, that if you free yourself from being too serious when playing a game, you can just laugh it off and start having fun with it. This is why I've started using T1, T2, and Runabout ships often in PvP maps. If my team can't pull it together (which they can't, 8 times out of 10) then why should I tie myself in knots over it? Just get some laughs and have some fun.
Its all a game.
But that isn't fun for me or I'd be doing pve. I don't join pvp just to fly my fancy colored ship around to be seen and shoot things. I join pvp for the mission objectives that I accept when joining the match. There is nothing better than a hard earned victory or a well fought defeat. Now rather than tie myself in knots over it since I am not really having any fun at a game I pay for, I might just stop paying for it. Or I could post on the forums asking cryptic to fix this problem for more serious players.