I see a lot of posters on this forum that I would love to get a chance to group with. The reason bing is that most of this community are intelligent, well spoken and mindful. Most seem to have an excellent grasp of tactics and tricks while playing.
My question is this: What is the best way to request grouping with some of you guys that wouldn't be ignored as spam? I'm constantly wanting to try new stuff with different people since most of my fleet is UK and logging for the day when I get online.
Suggestions?


I'm sci, in a refit intrepid. Controller/healer

Send a /tell.

If I'm on the same shard and am not currently busy, of course I'll play.

Maybe a little comment to refresh the persons memory would help too, like "we had that discussion about phasers on the forums" or the like. I turn down more friend/group requests than I accept simply because I don't remember talking to the person making the request. Not really meaning to be snooty, but I don't friend anyone in the blind.

send a message with a subject like "got a quick question"

i doubt most people on here would regard it as spam since there isn't much spamming going on