*ahem* raises hand. I'm a female and I play numerous MMOs and have done so for years. Just wanted you boys to know that female gamers are not a myth...we are out there...*cue ominous music* :p
Reading comprehension for the win!
On-topic: I agree, I've not seen any non-white-named Alien Females from any source. I've seen female officer candidates from most every named species but not from the generic aliens. They really should fix that.