I just got to earth spacedock, loads fine and then it lags like heck, and patching files comes up, and it freezes the whole game, then it finally let's me move around again, 5 steps later it comes back up and freezes, i'm not doing this.

Just for reference, if you search the forums for patching you should have seen some discussion on this.

Log completely out of the game.

Restart the launcher.

Go into the Options menu along the top and check the Disable on-demand patching.

Log out and restart the launcher.

Let it patch and give it a try.

if that doesn;t work, try the force verify option at the same location.

Please let us know how it goes.

Over 5000 mb to update...-_-'