Yeah thats annoying as hell. queueing up 5 people for a colony run from the same fleet, 2 of us made it in, the rest got booted. Tried again with 3 of us, only 1 made it in.
I've had it take 4 or 5 tries solo to get into anything, be it colony ground or the MU event.
Also, no numbers as to who is in what on the list? bring that back please!