Sorry, I am doomed to "pugatry" because the time of night i get online the rest of my fleets pvpers are not online.
Just because your fleeties aren't on doesn't mean you can find quality players. Maybe you can put a post in the forums here looking for some PvP'ers to group up with that play when you are on. People here are more than willing to help when asked.
Did you look at some of my suggestions on how to deal with your situation? Also you never posted you build, there are some pretty bright guys here that I am sure can take a look at it an constructive critique if (if it need that).