Rank 2 of Aux2Damp? So IF the BOff is in an engineering station that is Lieutenant or higher, you should see it. So make sure you didn't assign it to the Ensign station on your ship instead. If you're using the Galaxy/Dreanought class cruiser then you might have a known bug. Set the relevant boff station to 'NONE', quit the game and when you come back in, putting the BOFF back should fix the problem.
PS Forget the consoles and Aux2Damp, try the Saucer Separation ability instead. Base turn rate of 6? Galaxy or Odyssey? Both ships can use this type of console.
I am running the $50 odyssey... I tried your suggestion and it worked. Thanks.
ODYSSEY SCIENCE CRUISER - U.S.S. MAIDEN TORONTO NX-971312-B
VESTA MULTI-MISSION SURVEILLANCE EXPLORER - U.S.S. HOPE IN HELL NX-902013-A