All that and then add the fact they whine about nerfing everything because they can't get that easy kill no more with all the cool stuff Cryptic has added because they claim its "OP" in PvP when in reality, its not. They just don't want to change their tactics and adapt to the ever evolving state of the game. They want to remain in the past...
PvEers like you have never adapted to anything in the game in their lives.
I'd love for Cryptic to add PvP mechanics to the PvE part of the game, just to see PvEers like you cry about how unfair it is to learn how to play.
And yes, PvPers are very helpful and friendly compared to most.
You only need to not act like a douchenozzle, and be willing to learn.
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