How I wish flying near/with them would help. The zombie-cruiser not so much. I can get pretty close to that, or at least survive long enough for them to give up.
The "super-escort" build seems to require some sort of super-secret handshake or club membership to get the details on. Without fail, anytime I pm one of them asking for the ship build or advice on how to fly like that, I am met with rude response containing an insult of some variety.
Those people are jerks who should be ashamed for behaving in that fashion.
The people on these forums are generally friendly and will freely give out information, so don't hesitate to ask for any details.
Now as for information on prospective escort builds, I would suggest reading this thread:
Also don't hesitate to /channel_join OrganizedPvP, and ask people there. Although I would recommend a more specific set of questions asked in a thread format on this forum instead. You're likely to get more replies that way.
Click here and here if you are interested in learning more about PvP.