In addition to the generous offer you received from Mai Kai and Hurleybird/Pandas (both of which you really should follow up on, given their incredible talent) Turkish RP Heroes/TRH would be more than happy to welcome you to our TeamSpeak server. Education is at the heart of our fleet. Just send me an email ingame for the TeamSpeak information (see sig below for @handle)
For feds, any fleet outside of Sad Pandas, Inner Circle, TSI, or Turkish RP Heroes isn't likely to teach good habits.
I admit that I have to agree with aquitaine985's sentiment .
Those are some poorly chosen words that don't highlight positively neither the fleet's you've mentioned nor the PvP community as a whole .
Note : it does not take a genius to come up with sword/shield co-op tactics (ppl have been doing that since the days board games were popular) .
And while that kind of gameplay can be satisfying for some , I think that many will attest that these very tactics are the ones which turn the 'noobs' off from puging PvP (and thus PvP in general) .
But one mans castle is another mans hovel I suppose .
Here's wishing the OP good luck !