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Just spitballing, but is iit a power with an arc (like tachyon beam which requires the ship to be in a 90' degree firing arc)? Where is it greyed? In the station list or in combat/space?
It's also dependent on your ship. Look under Character Status, Assignment. If the bridge officer is assigned to a console that can't use level II abilities, your BO won't be able to use his/her abilities even if they have the skills.
Google STO ship tier chart. It'll show you all the ships and what level BO skills allowed based on ship class.