http://www.militarygaming.net/forums/index.php is the place for you, then. 503rd Interdiction Fleet, a branch of Military Gaming, is a multi-game organization for current and ex-military only. Check it out and fill out an app, I think it'll be just what you're looking for.
hello and welcome to the sto forums. we at the 4th fleet are mature, friendly, and active. alot of our members including our FA Vorec are either former or active military personel. we dont have drama and done put up with any. if you would like to join one of the best fleets in game go to http://forums.4th-fleet.com/index.php you can read our history, structure, and what is expected from our members at http://forums.startrekonline.com/showthread.php?t=88444