Since you bought a digital download, has Gamestop given you your serial number yet? If they have, then I believe you can register your account here (which you'll have to do anyway) and then simply download the file directly from Cryptic. Unless I completely fail to understand the system involved, you don't have to use the version from a digital retailer (and given some of the issues I've heard with patching and updates, it's quite possible that you don't really *want* to use a retailer's version.)
The installer, and instructions on how to use it, are at:
http://www.startrekonline.com/download
If you still can't get the Gamestop file to download and decrypt properly, you might give that a try.
Edit: Also, you said you're running XP SP2 - you might need to consider installing SP3, and the updates to Internet Explorer. As I understand it, the launcher is essentially a script that runs through IE, and things get weird if you're not using the current version.