It seems to be quite popular in England to refer to any superior as Sir, not just in military use. My line manager (Female) is refered to as sir.
If in doubt use Captain, but Sir can serve both genders equally.
Let me guess: this is another "bring back handsome phaser guy" thread?
I'm starting to get sick of you starting threads that are discussing issues based on gender. Ever since that "elf/vulcan" picture/wallpaper showed up you've been carrying on and on about it and how the game is becoming oversexualized. Give it a rest.
If you want to push your morals and political correctness on people, go join a christian forum or something. Keep it out of STO.
That was uncalled for...
The OP asks for help to avoid bad ratings on poor judgement, and you're telling him to p*ss off?