As the title says, it's been 2 days and I still can't connect.
Until the 19th, I'd been able to connect just fine and have been a part of beta for the last month. Suddenly, no luck. I've rebooted a few times, recycled my router, and all the basics on my end. I'm not whining or complaining - just mentioning it here since I can't get into game to file a proper bug report.
Under options of your launcher window, set the proxy server to NONE. Dont pick US or EU and see if that works.
I had the "connecting to the login server" for the past 3 weeks during BETA and again during headstart. I fiddled around with it and changed the proxy, and for the past 10 hours, I have had no problems logging in.